Truly Available, Easy Love
Private Mentorship
Conscious, high-achieving woman…
I see you rocking it in your life and business.
And, when it comes to love, I know you’re looking for your partner..
You’re ready to meet your soul-aligned partner - a union you can both lean into and takes you to your next level of expansion and evolution in yourself, your life, your business.
You have the vision. You know he’s out there. You can feel him.
You’ve also done all the things - trauma healing and nervous system rewiring, healing around your attachment system, embodiment and self-care, and all things relational and healing.
You’ve mastered so much.
Finding love doesn’t require the same level of mastery that your business does.
Who you really are is the key to attracting your man.
Learning to be more yourself is the way to magnetize the right man for you.
Your essence is the way you attract him.
You don’t need to change, you need to express more of who you are.
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You’ve learned as a woman to be loved you have to perform, be a certain way and look a certain way.
As a high achieving woman, you’ve learned that if you work hard enough that you will finally be loved and chosen.
The self-development industry feeds on these beliefs by taking you on an endless merry go round of healing and growth.
This belief system then becomes your reality and you can never have the love you want because you are on an endless journey of working hard and never arriving at your desire.
True freedom in your love life happens when you step into ALL of who you are, while deconditioning from the beliefs that have held you back from evolutionary love.
If you desire to…
🌹Call in your long-term, committed partner who is both secure and settling to your nervous system and who meets you in your expansion and evolution
🌹Balance your inner masculine’s *high* standards and discernment with your inner feminine receptivity so that you are available for the man you truly desire to be with.
🌹Feel empowered af as you learn more powerfully to lead from your adult woman and no longer let your nervous system and attachment system run the show in your love life.
🌹Experience the freedom and enjoyment of being 100% yourself in dating + relationships
🌹Feel connected to your life energy, vitality, creativity, and freedom in partnership + all areas of your life
Then welcome, you’re in the right place.
Introducing: Liberated Relationship Mentorship Program
A high-touch, 6-month 1:1 container for conscious, powerhouse, self-responsible women who are ready to magnetize their secure, inspiring next level partner.
This program is designed to support you to:
✨ Embrace and embody your core essence and natural gifts so you can see the parts of you that are out of congruence with yourself and the partnership you most desire.
✨ Do the powerful work to heal and upgrade mental, emotional, energetic, spiritual and ancestral levels of your being so you are fully yourself and therefore a match for your soulmate partner.
✨ Get crystal clear about your standards and non-negotiables in partnership and stick with them in dating. Read: practice impeccable discernment and have your adult in the driver’s seat.
✨ Uplevel your communication skills and courage to lean into transparency and vulnerability in dating. Be courageously willing to say what’s true for you or what didn’t feel good and see how the man responds. Be in 100% reality, no fantasy, at the beginning of getting to know a man so you can quickly see who’s for you and who is not.
You’ll have high level customized support from me and receive expert support in trauma healing and nervous system rewiring where the rubber meets the road in your dating life.
Book a call with me if this is for you. We’ll dive into your big vision for partnership and make sure the program is a mutually-aligned fit.
There is no shortage of men… and yet it feels hard to meet YOUR man.
A man where your nervous system feels settled and secure AND who meets you in your expansion and evolution.
You’re done being with men who don’t meet the fullness of who you are and what you know you’re here to experience.
You know he’s out there.
You’re so ready for your next level love and you’re so close.
If you’re like many of my clients, you’ve done a lot of healing work. And you are still getting hijacked by your attachment system and nervous system.
It feels confusing af.
I too used to get hijacked by my attachment system and nervous system which led me to choose men who were safe, didn’t meet me in my adult woman and weren’t a fully-aligned match.
This is what I now support women with so they can have their truly soul-aligned love.
It’s one thing to know what your triggers are and quite another thing to have the guidance to work through them as it’s happening in real-time.
You’re right there. You’ve got skills, you know how to lean in and share your heart and your truth.
You just need someone who has your back and can support you when the triggers flare up so you can relate from your adult woman.
As a woman who has accomplished so much, making the powerful decision to consciously put your time and energy into claiming and calling in your partner can feel vulnerable and tender af.
Admitting to yourself that there are reasons that you haven’t met the love of your life - a partner who is secure and settling to your nervous system AND who meets you in your fullness, depth and power.
It’s time to acknowledge your deep desire for partnership.
To hold yourself with courage and heart and be willing to step into your most vulnerable, intimate longing - your desire for your soulmate, Beloved.
To hire a mentor who sees YOU in all of who you are, who will hold you in your power and light and will walk with you through the most tender, sacred, intimate parts of your soul.
This program is for you if…
✅ You’ve done a lot of personal growth and healing work and are ready to stop the endless inner child healing merry go round and learn to have your adult woman in the driver’s seat in your love life.
✅ You are self-responsible and a self-starter.
✅ You are ready to make a life-changing powerful decision to only be available for what you want, know you will experience discomfort and challenge along the way and have the courage and readiness to stick with your decision.
This program is not for you if you…
❌ You have early relational trauma that impacts your daily life and you have never gotten therapeutic or coaching support for it before.
❌ You tend to think life is happening to you or it’s the man’s fault
❌ You’re unwilling to set boundaries and ask for what you really want.
Working with me will support you in making the powerful decision to only be available for what you want (and saying no to everything else). This is what discernment in dating looks like, and it is a core foundation of our work together.
About Lori Beth Goldman:
Hi there. I’m Lori and I’m a relationship coach for conscious, successful women who are ready to meet the perfect man in a straight forward, no bs, true to yourself way.
I’m on fire about freeing women to be all of who they are + finding epic love.
I’m all about you meeting your out of this world, soul aligned partner where your union and your relating takes you to the next level in your life.
I’m all about you finding this epic love, being where you feel supported at the highest level so you can be your powerful, badass selves and make the difference I know you’re here to make.
I’m all about contributing to more power couples in the world who are modeling sovereign, authentic, interconnected relating and healing the split between men and women so we can work in unity and cocreation.
This is my passion and my mission.
I know intimately what it's like to want partnership with all your heart and soul and to not have it.
My desire for partnership was the biggest cause of suffering in my adult life. I was not partnered for 13 years.
As someone who is gifted in all things relating and has such a depth of intimacy and connection in the rest of my life, it was confusing and demoralizing af that it wasn’t happening.
Over time, I started to question and doubt who I was. I endlessly and incessantly tried to shift and heal myself as a way to finally land in love.
I tried every therapy, healing and coaching modality under the sun. I was knee deep in spiritual practice.
I tried to let it go and put my energy elsewhere. I tried to soften and be more ‘feminine’. In spite of all of my efforts, it wasn’t happening.
What shifted? In short, I started being exactly who I am, owned the fuck out of my desire for love and decided that I was perfect and desirable exactly as I am.
The things I did to shift this are exactly what I work on in this program…
✨I healed an old childhood pattern of feeling like I wasn’t enough, needed to change to be loved and needed to work hardstopped making myself wrong and learned love myself as I am and embrace and embody my core essence and natural gifts.
✨I made the powerful decision to stop dating unavailable men and only date men who were a match for what I wanted.
✨I learned to not let my attachment system and nervous system run the show in my dating life and embodied the powerful, truth-telling, bold woman that I am.
And, you know what happened, I met a partner who loved me and wanted me exactly as I am, a man who was fully devoted to me and his own evolution.
We had a beautiful partnership and when I no longer felt like it was in full alignment to who I am and my path, I was able to easily end the relationship and make myself available for what was true now. And, now I feel free, beautiful and desirable and meet amazing men everywhere I go.
Why work with me?
I’m here after 25 years of therapy, healing and personal work, 14 years as a clinical professional and working with hundreds of clients.
I’ve had a long career as a somatic, relational and trauma therapist. I’ve done over 5,000 hours of clinical supervision with dozens of therapeutic mentors and have completed over a dozen professional trainings.
I specialize in emotional regulation, early attachment, C-PTSD and nervous system rewiring. I use the powerful method I created - combining leading modalities with my own clinical work - to get to the root of any intimacy wound or relationship pattern and unwind it.
For the last 22 years, I’ve been blessed to study and practice with incredible Buddhist teachers, many of whom are weaving psychology, trauma and attachment theory into Buddhist practice. I help you open to the highest spiritual depths while being grounded in your body and this earthly life.
I also know what it’s like to be single for years and in and out of relationships that aren’t fully aligned. I have been through a deep personal journey of fully owning all of who I am and feel so free, alive, creative and full in myself and freed myself to find love.
I am highly gifted at all things related and have supported hundreds of clients with this topic and in all kinds of relationships for years.
We need this new paradigm of relating and I am so here for it.
It would be my greatest joy and honor to walk you through the process of healing, transforming, and calling in deep, epic love.
Let’s do this together!
We need more women feeling supported in their power, creativity and aliveness.
We need more mature power couples feeling expanded by their union and serving at their highest level.
We need more couples embodying what true sovereign relating looks like.
This is exactly the work we will do together in Liberated Relationship Mentorship.
If this is for you and you are ready to meet your soul-aligned partner, click below to fill out a short application and set up an exploration call.
On this call, we will talk about what your big desire for partnership is and what needs to shift for you to have this. You will get a sense of what it would be like to be in a 1:1 coaching container with me and we will make sure the program is a fit.
What Women Are Saying…
“Lori truly guided me in the way to finding my partner. When Lori and I first started working together, I was in a succession of meeting lovely but emotionally unavailable/unready partners and hitting my head against the wall. Lori helped me reveal the true, full, vulnerable me - paired with firm boundaries, centredness and strength that led me to attracting a strong, loving, masculine partner. I didn’t believe men like him even existed! And I’ve gained his bonus daughter as well who I love so much. I’m forever grateful for our work together - I don’t think I could have met him (or accepted him!) before working with Lori. I highly recommend working with Lori if you’re wanting to shift your patterns in love for good and meet your long-term partner.”
— Lauren S., CEO Consultancy Agency & Children’s Book Author
“Lori studied Somatic Psychotherapy at CIIS and is a licensed psychotherapist who coaches women on matters related to their personal and professional lives. While I was eager to work with her prior to our calls, I was absolutely blown away by our interactions. Lori utilized her immense skill set to immediately pinpoint my blockages and help me unearth the way in which I could not simply manage them, but completely remove them, thus releasing any barriers to my full embodiment and subsequent joy & success. She uses decades of experience as a highly skilled therapist and healer to inform her coaching work, masterfully bringing together deep healing of long-held somatic and relational patterns with actionable steps to fulfill your deepest heartfelt desires.
— Elen A., Embodied Leadership Coach
“I came to Lori because I was panicked and anxious often, struggling in my relationship and so preoccupied by my partner that I couldn’t focus on my career and my creative and spiritual life, all of which are extremely important to me. Lori’s skillful guidance helped me to re-center and come back to my body and immediate experience, and the true feelings that were beneath all the stories I was telling myself. She also helped me discover a dysfunctional pattern stemming from my childhood that I had been acting out which I was totally unaware of and had been causing major chaos in my current relationship. I am super grateful for that. With her reflections and intuitive suggestions I began to see more clearly what I needed to do to better care for myself and my relationship. She helped me to clarify my personal boundaries and held such a safe space for me to be vulnerable and totally honest with myself. With her support in cultivating more awareness and practicing various techniques to self-regulate, I began to experience relief- I found ways to bring my nervous system into regulation faster and I found myself fixating less on the actions of my partner and more on my own immediate needs. The frequent episodes of anxiety and panic began to diminish the more I would show up for myself. And even when the patterns and tendencies would arise, I was able to bring more compassion to myself.”
— Mary Isis D.C, Singer, Musician and Music Producer
“In our work together, Lori helped me feel like it was totally okay to have anxious attachment and to lean in and share what I was feeling and needing and then I did and my new partner responded with a lot of care. I was in the uncertainty of a new relationship. I didn’t know how he would respond so it was terrifying and continuing to lean in and share my feelings, fears and concerns has helped relieve my anxiety and trust him more and we have gotten closer as a result.”
— Kelly, Sex and Relationship Coach
Lori is masterful at leading people down a path of exploring their deepest held fears and relational issues. Her capacity TO BE with another person, and really GET THEM is extraordinary. She has a wizards-eye when it comes to seeing where you’re at, and assisting you on where you want to be. I’ve seen here support, transform and heal those around her – working with Lori is a gift! I highly recommend you take her up on her offering – it’s bound to be a powerful experience!
— Ashley C., Energy Healer and Spiritual Guide
“In my work with Lori, I have almost immediately been able to put into practice the healing methods and tools she offers. For example, in a group session, she offered a meditation exercise where she guided us to visualize downward flowing energy during moments of reactivity. This reminded me of a tool I had forgotten about of visualizing a tree root growing down through my body and into the earth. After the session, these tools became much more accessible to me during hard moments. When Lori worked directly with me on a subject that elicits activation in my nervous system, I appreciated her invitation to allow the timing/pace of my journey into feminine embodiment/surrender to be natural and not rushed. I was reminded that the very energy of trying to "move it along" aka rush was more of the same masculine conditioning that I had internalized and was wanting to shift in the first place. Finally, I love how Lori so naturally normalizes all that arises in the group- witnessing the ways she talks with other women is healing in itself. We can become so focused on our "issues" and what we're "working on", and after Lori's groups my internal language seems to shift more towards thinking about what I'm exploring and playing/dancing with. It's not just work! It's being human :)”
— Chrissy D., Educational Consultant and Mother