Rewiring Love: A Simple Path to Secure, Connected Partnership
I’ve always been appalled by the dating advice given by so many experts to be more feminine or pretend you don’t need anything from a man.
That’s the exact opposite approach I would offer to anyone wanting a deeply intimate, mutually supportive long-term partnership.
How can you possibly meet a man who is a great match for you if you are being someone other than you are?
How on earth can you partner with a man who meets you and is responsive to you if you aren’t expressing your true needs and wants and aren’t expressing the fullness of who you are?
The truth is that you need to know who you are and what you want and learn how to hold yourself and regulate your nervous system if you’re going to meet or be partnered with a fully available, committed man.
Regulating your nervous system is akin to learning to hold yourself and show up for yourself in all that you go through in love.
Our desire for romantic love is tender and vulnerable.
Whether you are connecting to your heart’s desire for a long-term partner, at the beginning of the dating process or well on your way to a committed bond, you absolutely need to know how to more exquisitely track your sensations and feelings, and regulate your nervous system.
Put simply, if you want long-term partnership with a man who is tracking and holding himself and who attunes to and is responsive to your feelings and needs, you have to know how to do this first with yourself.
The more you bring awareness to your patterns, track and attune to your own inner parts and regulate your nervous system, the more likely you will feel care and appreciation for yourself, have positive dating experiences and meet or be partnered with a man who is a secure and beautiful match for you.
In this 4-week intensive series, you will:
Identify those sneaky subconscious beliefs and stories you have about yourself, your love life and men and rewire them through the body and nervous system so you can relate to men with appreciation, depth and in a true to yourself way.
Identify and rewire all feelings and old wounds that are impacting your love life now so you can feel more self-love, confidence and enjoyment in the process of meeting your man (or create a more satisfying intimate bond with your current partner).
Learn practical skills to hold yourself and rewire your nervous system as you connect with men so you are able to lean in and share from your heart and connect deeply with the new right man for you or your current partner.
Receive my expert tips and hands on support around your unique way of sharing your feelings and needs from the heart so you create intimacy from the start.
This class is open to women who are single and ready to meet their man, as well as women who are in a relationship but want to deepen their connection with their current partner.
The more you feel free to be unapologetically you, the more you will magnetize the perfect man for you.
The more you feel free to be your whole self in your current relationship, the more you will feel met, seen and held by your man.
In order to partner with a fully available, committed man, you have to be able to track your own experience and know your attachment system intricately.
You have to know what you need in love and feel safe to share your heart vulnerably.
This is the path to a committed, securely attached partnership.
Details:
Classes will take place on Thursdays at 11am MT and will be 2 hours each for all four weeks.
Dates are May 26th, June 2nd, June 9th and June 16th and all sessions will be recorded.
This class is teachings + live coaching. This is going to be a closed container, private and completely confidential group that will include a facebook group.
The series will be limited to 12 women so we can get deep and intimate.
Investment: $600
I offer a unique and powerful method of unwinding and rewiring:
Stories and belief systems about love through the body and nervous system
Who you think you need to be in order to be loved and chosen
Nervous system and attachment system, our early wounding that leads us to choose certain men and show up in certain ways that are counter to what we truly want in love
It’s time for you to experience more freedom in your body and nervous system to be open to men.
It’s time for you to experience more freedom in your body and nervous system to be open to men.
To fully meet yourself, show up for yourself, and hold yourself in whatever feelings you have in not having met your man yet.
It is time to stop this endless chase of doing and striving and come back to the truth of who you are.
Let’s do this together - secure your spot by registering below.
About Lori
Lori Beth Goldman is a 14-year licensed psychotherapist and Relationship Coach and Intimacy Expert. She has helped hundreds of women either go from being single to happily partnered or bring more passion and intimacy into their long-term partnerships by being true to who they are, authentic and fully expressed. She combines her vast expertise in integrative therapeutic healing, trauma, attachment and all things relating with holistic, embodied, laser focused coaching. She is 25-year Buddhist practitioner and combines mindfulness and awareness practices into her work with clients.
What Women Are Saying…
“Lori truly guided me in the way to finding my partner. When Lori and I first started working together, I was in a succession of meeting lovely but emotionally unavailable/unready partners and hitting my head against the wall. Lori helped me reveal the true, full, vulnerable me - paired with firm boundaries, centredness and strength that led me to attracting a strong, loving, masculine partner. I didn’t believe men like him even existed! And I’ve gained his bonus daughter as well who I love so much. I’m forever grateful for our work together - I don’t think I could have met him (or accepted him!) before working with Lori. I highly recommend working with Lori if you’re wanting to shift your patterns in love for good and meet your long-term partner.”
— Lauren S., CEO Consultancy Agency & Children’s Book Author
“Lori studied Somatic Psychotherapy at CIIS and is a licensed psychotherapist who coaches women on matters related to their personal and professional lives. While I was eager to work with her prior to our calls, I was absolutely blown away by our interactions. Lori utilized her immense skill set to immediately pinpoint my blockages and help me unearth the way in which I could not simply manage them, but completely remove them, thus releasing any barriers to my full embodiment and subsequent joy & success. She uses decades of experience as a highly skilled therapist and healer to inform her coaching work, masterfully bringing together deep healing of long-held somatic and relational patterns with actionable steps to fulfill your deepest heartfelt desires.
— Elen A., Embodied Leadership Coach
“I came to Lori because I was panicked and anxious often, struggling in my relationship and so preoccupied by my partner that I couldn’t focus on my career and my creative and spiritual life, all of which are extremely important to me. Lori’s skillful guidance helped me to re-center and come back to my body and immediate experience, and the true feelings that were beneath all the stories I was telling myself. She also helped me discover a dysfunctional pattern stemming from my childhood that I had been acting out which I was totally unaware of and had been causing major chaos in my current relationship. I am super grateful for that. With her reflections and intuitive suggestions I began to see more clearly what I needed to do to better care for myself and my relationship. She helped me to clarify my personal boundaries and held such a safe space for me to be vulnerable and totally honest with myself. With her support in cultivating more awareness and practicing various techniques to self-regulate, I began to experience relief- I found ways to bring my nervous system into regulation faster and I found myself fixating less on the actions of my partner and more on my own immediate needs. The frequent episodes of anxiety and panic began to diminish the more I would show up for myself. And even when the patterns and tendencies would arise, I was able to bring more compassion to myself.”
— Mary Isis D.C, Singer, Musician and Music Producer
“In my work with Lori, I have almost immediately been able to put into practice the healing methods and tools she offers. For example, in a group session, she offered a meditation exercise where she guided us to visualize downward flowing energy during moments of reactivity. This reminded me of a tool I had forgotten about of visualizing a tree root growing down through my body and into the earth. After the session, these tools became much more accessible to me during hard moments. When Lori worked directly with me on a subject that elicits activation in my nervous system, I appreciated her invitation to allow the timing/pace of my journey into feminine embodiment/surrender to be natural and not rushed. I was reminded that the very energy of trying to "move it along" aka rush was more of the same masculine conditioning that I had internalized and was wanting to shift in the first place. Finally, I love how Lori so naturally normalizes all that arises in the group- witnessing the ways she talks with other women is healing in itself. We can become so focused on our "issues" and what we're "working on", and after Lori's groups my internal language seems to shift more towards thinking about what I'm exploring and playing/dancing with. It's not just work! It's being human :)”
— Chrissy D., Educational Consultant and Mother